A Sharing Moment Brought to you by Ali:
I am a very cerebral person. I love to think! I love thinking of all kinds of things, I love speaking to people or meeting people who can also challenge my mental muscle. Why do I bring this up? Well, as I read along in my daily Web surfing moments, I noticed all the intellectual blogs out there. I read all the delicious data written by very capable people in the blog hemisphere.
And then my mind begins to flutter with internal questions. I notice how most people always keep to a theme on their blogs. Where I flutter around from topic to topic like some dizzy dragon fly. One can say I am all over the place, but am I really? I think I seem to link ideas together, like a daisy chain, a chaotic daisy chain, but there is some pattern to my writing and thoughts. I may ramble on about ideas, and moments but eventually I come to some form of path to my ramblings. Really I do, at times.
I love to self-analyze myself, in hopes to tweaking myself to be the best that I can for myself. Which I think enhances my way of thinking as well as writing. I love to learn from people, because from them, I learn about myself. Life is what we make from it, sometimes, it feels like we are getting nowhere one day, overwhelmed the next...but what it basically comes down for me is taking in the moment, good or bad no matter what it may. Nothing ever stays the same in my thought pattern or in life.
It's amazing how things link together at times. I think that is what I love about blogging. At that moment as I share information, I can come back to reanalyze where I was and where I am now. Standing in that moment we can’t see over the hedges, but as we move forward up the hill or down it, we can get a better look at it all. I've always believed that a relationship is similar, it takes work, it takes standing back, it takes a lot of understanding, communication, and respect for each other.
This is something that is worked on, through communication. Relationships with friends, family, a lover, acquaintances, and so on all takes work. Some may be a lot of work, while others just flow seamlessly. It’s the ones that take a ton of work that one needs patience and understanding the most.
It amazes me sometimes on the amount of people in this world who do not know how to communicate the simple things in life. OR feel they don’t need to, that one always blows my mind. I guess cause I like to share my thoughts and feelings. I know it isn’t easy for most, but it still blows my mind. I think most people were never taught the proper etiquette of keeping in communication. Schools don’t teach it, and if you come from a family that doesn’t communicate much, it makes it hard to learn.
We meet people who mirror ourselves back and with some enlightenment, we see and try to fix that in ourselves sometimes some of us try to fix it in those around us. Some may not see this reflection so easily, while others, are aware of it and do nothing. How do we correct ourselves, is it like trying to get a tire balance in the world we call life? Balance is definitely not such an easy thing to achieve. Up and down we go on the see saw of life, going from one extreme to another until we get that comfortable medium. I'm always striving for balance and may I say it is definitely not an easy achievement at times for me. How do you achieve balance? How do you communicate within a relationship (friendship, romantic, family, etc), and what are your extreme days?
Labels: Just Thoughts.
